Romans 8:16-17; 1 Corinthians 10:13
Romans 8
16 The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.
1 Corintians 10
13No test or temptation that comes your way is beyond the course of what others have had to face. All you need to remember is that God will never let you down; he'll never let you be pushed past your limit; he'll always be there to help you come through it.
When you think about it, we actually choose to suffer all the time for what we feel is a greater good. We get up for work before our bodies are ready, we work-out to get in better physical shape, we stay up all night to care for a sick child, we'll even let a surgeon cut us open if we are convinced something better will come of it. The concept of choosing suffering to achieve something desirable is actually pretty routine for us. But we tend to avoid suffering when the results are not tangibly seen, and also when we won't have control over the degree of suffering that we will experience.
I think it's not the suffering by itself that we hate so much, it's these two aspects that make it so intolerable to us. You can take the same suffering event and tell someone in advance the good that will result from it and exactly when it will end and and they would often even volunteer for it. It's like someone running 5 miles a day by choice to help them win a race versus having a drill sergeant who makes them run 3 miles some days, 5 miles other days, and some days not at all, with no plan or competition at the end of the training period. The first scenario actually involves more physical suffering than the second, but is more tolerable because the person controls exactly when it will start and end and will get to see the tangible results in the competition at the end of it.
Suffering for Christ can often involve one or both of these discouraging aspects. Praying and Bible study, while I hesitate to call suffering, involves the first. We can spend a lot of time, and it is work too, praying for someone and never know how or if it helped them. We can study the Bible every day, but because we don't know how we would be if we hadn't, we will never know the degree that it has changed us. Witnessing might involve both aspects, we never know, and will have no control over, the degree of persecution we will be met with if we try to speak to someone about the Gospel, and usually will never know how it impacted them. Sometimes all we have to go on are verses like Romans 8:17 and 1 Corinthians 10:13, that say that suffering for Him does result in greater good, well beyond what we can see or comprehend, and that He is in control of exactly how much we will be subjected to. I guess that's why it's called faith.
"I can't just fight when I think I'll win, that's the end of all belief..."
--Sara Groves from song titled The Long Defeat
